You have your own time, your own dreams, and your own plans, and you must stick to them. If you don't like something, then don't like it. You must not change yourself or your ideas just because women don't like it. Most people try to impress so hard, trying to get others to like them that they forget to be themselves. You have to create and maintain a strong character. Accept your flaws and imperfections and focus on being better. No one is perfect, and some people will not like you, its simple as that. This is the most important step an concept to understand, and once you have mastered it, others will come to you naturally.

Grow independence. Learn to enjoy yourself and your own company. You will realize that the less you need other people, the more other people will need you. Always create your own fun and entertainment. Have a strong passion, and find hobbies and other interests that you would like to spend your time. Life is as fun and as interesting as you want to make it. Stop looking for others, especially women, to make you happy, because you don't need them. People from all around the world try to find happiness from everything except themselves. When you learn to have fun by yourself, you will attract everything else and you will truly become independent.

Become the center of your world. Walk with purpose, talk with purpose, and slow down your movements. This isn't easy, but it will be helpful throughout your life. You must learn to cultivate a pause between actions and reactions. Remember, a man acts while a fool reacts. You can't control other people, situations or events, but you can control yourself and how you respond to those other things. Simply, stop letting outside events rattle you; keep your composure.